Ready to mingle and offer treats to parents on conference day |
A few of the kids hanging out in the gym with us before school |
Some of my cheerleaders... their innocent smiles are deceiving :-) |
Volunteering at an Animal Control Center for a teamlette service day |
Trudging our way through the storm for the Fall Feast |
These weeks were full of: so much relationship-building with students! My first one-on-one evaluation with my supervisor, spending a Saturday service day volunteering at an Animal Control Center, the Fall Feast with the whole corps, attending lectures on Social Emotional Learning and Poverty & Urban Schooling, and organizing the Family Meet & Greet during parent conferences.
Strategy of the Week: Let your kids know that you love them. Tell them you can already tell how intelligent they are and that you can't wait to see the quality work they produce. Tell them you can tell what an asset they will be and that you are so glad they are in your class. Tell them they are special and that they have the potential to be a great leader, just like their role models. Do this for all kids, even if these things aren't true, because they act how we message that we expect them to act. Reframe their behavior to empower them.
Quotes of the Weeks: "Teachers can't be too cool with their kids, or they think you a fool. If I was a teacher, I wouldn't care if they liked me. You can be nice, but you gotta be firm too." - A Twelfth-Grader
"My daughter raised her grades this year... those red jackets are really helping her out." - A Parent
"Whose idea was it to start having basketball in the mornings before school? I used to come to school just a little late, but now I come early." - A Student
"No disrespecting Ms. Lewis!" - Called out by an often-unfocused student, while I was waiting for many of his classmates to stop talking
"There is no 'problem kid' that can't be fixed with affection, sunlight, and good food." - Bill Strickland at the North Lawndale Community Meeting
"I've tried to walk my cat on a leash before, but he gets so distracted... so now I just have a cat stroller." - Volunteer at the Animal Control Center
Joys: Receiving an increasing number of regular hugs from students; having more students want to spend time in our City Year room to play cards, practice typing websites, chat, or draw (along with doing homework); hearing a student eagerly ask me "are you going to be in here with us all the time now?" while visiting the Special Education room; making a student who was having a bad day a comic about a superhero who controls his moods then hearing that he showed it off to everyone in his class; the complete attitude change in some of my juniors when I gave them a getting-to-know-you survey, wrote them all back a sincere letter, then taught a lesson using an essay I wrote describing how they will be successful with their names as examples; soaking in the pride and momentum at the North Lawndale Community Meeting; and hearing a 'challenging' student chose the word Love for a spirit break.